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Fair OOTDs  /  January 7, 2018

My New Year’s resolutions + tips for sticking to yours!

Happy New Year! Though the demarcation of time is a social construct and there’s not really anything inherently significant about the start of another trip around the sun, it’s always a good idea to reflect on what’s important to us, what we’ve accomplished, and what we want to work on.

Here are my 2018 resolutions, followed by some tips that have helped me accomplish goals and establish good habits.

My 2018 resolutions:

One: Be more vulnerable and personal with my content.

I want to put more of myself in my content, and by that I mean being more vulnerable and talking about issues that are intimate and personal and frankly, kind of scary to share on the Internet.

Honestly, even writing about something as palatable as diversity was a little scary, and I wasn’t nearly as political as I could’ve been in that post (Why we need more POC in sustainable and ethical fashion). But I didn’t start this blog just to take pretty pictures of my clothes!

I think I’m ready to start challenging myself to push the limits of my content, as scary as it may be, because I think that feeling uncomfortable is a sign of growth.

Two: Incorporate sustainability into my daily life.

Obviously, I’ve been trying to minimize my impact on the environment through sustainable fashion, but I’ve also realized how scary and imminent the consequences of climate change are this year—and that there are things I can do on an individual level that help me imagine and work towards a more sustainable world.

For example, I WILL start composting in my apartment in 2018! It’s actually really embarrassing for me that I have lived in Seattle for over a year and hadn’t bought a compost bin until a couple days ago, and that had been my sole, easily surmountable barrier to this eco-friendly lifestyle change. I’m also looking into ways to reduce my use of plastic, such as using beeswax wrap as a replacement for plastic wrap, grabbing coffee in reusable cups, and skipping plastic bags at the grocery store.

While environmental damage is caused by corporations and the government as well as individual consumers, calling for collective political action such as organizing and protests, I think it’s important to combine this collective action with everyday lifestyle choices that reflect our values.

Three: Transition to a more plant-based diet.

Consuming meat and animal products, especially from factory farms, is horrible for the environment and the low income communities of color affected by this environmental damage, not to mention the animals subjected to abusive conditions and violence. There are other factors to consider besides cutting out meat and dairy, as this article explains really well, so I’m also trying to take into consideration the environmental impact of the plants I eat. In addition, plant-based diets are good for your health…so I figured there’s seriously no reason to not do it (besides my addiction to cheese).

I’ve attempted vegetarianism before, but now that I am completely in charge of what I buy, cook, and eat, it’s a lot more feasible for me to change my diet. My plan is to learn vegetarian and vegan recipes to cook at home, mostly eliminating meat and eventually eggs and dairy products from my home-cooked meals. I’ll still allow myself to eat animal products on occasion, but I’ll try to do so at restaurants that buy local and support small farmers, or to buy directly from the local farmers’ market. I do enjoy eating animal products, but want to support more sustainable and humane farming as well as consumption on a much smaller scale (more on why being vegan may not be the absolute best thing for the earth in this article).

My hope is that this will challenge me to discover new recipes and foods, as well as improve my health (and my skin!! fingers crossed).

Four: Continue exercising consistently (at least three times a week).

Okay, this is such a cliche. However, I have already been exercising consistently and have found it extremely beneficial to my mood and energy levels, especially in the winter. I’m also focusing on exercising for the way I feel, not the way I look, although that can definitely be hard.

I’ve found myself looking forward to my workouts because it’s time I’ve set aside just for me to do something that will ultimately make me feel pretty awesome. It’s part of my self-care practice and I’d like to continue cultivating that in 2018.

Five: Cultivate and grow my creativity.

I want to keep challenging myself to grow and to push the limits of what I can create. In 2017, although my blog writing took off and it’s been a wild ride, I completely neglected my practice of writing poetry and fiction. I’d really like to focus on that in 2018 and actually put in the effort to grow my skills the way I did with my blog writing.

I’m also excited about learning more about sewing and continuing to try my hand at embroidery. As for Restitchstance-related content, I’m interested in making videos, because there’s an opportunity to show you more of my life and to exercise my creativity in a different way…but we’ll see!


Tips for sticking to your resolutions:

Make resolutions that you actually want to do.

Your resolutions should bring you joy in some way, or else you’ll give up. My resolution to transition to a more plant-based diet brings me joy because it forces me out of my comfort zone to try new recipes and discover new flavors. I wouldn’t suggest, for example, making a resolution to lose weight because the actual process of changing how you eat and exercise most likely won’t bring you joy if the end goal is the only thing you want to get out of it (not to mention you’re amazing the way you are and don’t need to change your body to look a certain way!).

Have a buddy to keep you accountable—and also make it more fun!

My partner, whom I live with, is fully supportive and excited about trying to incorporate more plant-based foods into our diets. This not only makes the resolution easier to accomplish, but also makes it an activity we can talk about and do together.

Create specific and measurable goals.

It’s important to define what “success” looks like so that you know what you have to do to achieve your goals. For my exercise routine, I decided on at least three times a week because it’s achievable even on my worst weeks, minimizing my chances of failure. It’s also enough times a week that I feel the benefits of working out. And most weeks, I do work out more often just because I enjoy it—but the important thing is that I meet that minimum goal of three times a week.

Track your progress.

If you keep a journal or a planner, you can track how you’re doing with your resolutions there, or Google “habit tracker” and you’ll find tons of free resources. Even just keeping little notes like when you worked out or what recipes you’ve tried can help give you a sense of the progress you’re making and the actual work you’re doing.


Do you make New Year’s resolutions? How do you keep yourself accountable? Let me know in the comments!

Outfit details:

Faux fur coat: bought secondhand from Crossroads
Leopard print cami: gifted from Swap.com, originally Diane von Furstenburg
Pants: American Apparel disco pants
Booties: gifted from Swap.com
Earrings: Nisolo
Watch: gifted from Berg + Betts

 

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  • Vivian Chuang says:
    January 7, 2018 at 2:59 pm

    I’m loving your thorough and very honest resolutions. Totally agree that making goals specific makes them way less daunting and gives you a better starting point. I don’t make resolutions very formally but love the fact that each year always feels like another push to make myself better for me, the people in my life, and our planet.

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    • Cat says:
      January 7, 2018 at 3:06 pm

      Thank you! I agree – last year I didn’t make formal resolutions but it was a year of growth for the better, nonetheless. Any time is a great time to start making changes that improve our lives and the planet!

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  • Lydia says:
    January 8, 2018 at 10:34 am

    These are great! I live being a vegetarian, can’t wait to read how you get on!

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    • Cat says:
      January 8, 2018 at 11:04 am

      I’ve been really enjoying learning how to cook vegetarian and vegan dishes! So far it’s been so fun.

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  • Yissel Aileen Rosalez says:
    January 8, 2018 at 10:35 am

    These are realistic goals and I love them all. The fact that you want to better yourself is so awesome.

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    • Cat says:
      January 8, 2018 at 11:05 am

      Thank you so much!

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  • Madison says:
    January 8, 2018 at 11:42 am

    This is freaking brilliant! I have similar ideas about achieving goals but wonder if they’re in my head because people don’t typically talk about their goals this way (honestly and logically). It’s so reassuring to read it from someone else. Really awesome that you put this out there. Props to you girl, cheers to 2018!

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    • Cat says:
      January 8, 2018 at 11:53 am

      Thanks so much! The only way for me to achieve my goals is if I really invest and put a lot of thought into them, and I figured I’d add some motivation by putting them on the Internet so I have to be held accountable, haha!

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  • Ashton says:
    January 8, 2018 at 12:19 pm

    Loved reading this! It was inspiring!!!

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    • Cat says:
      January 8, 2018 at 12:43 pm

      Thank you!

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  • Morgan Michelle says:
    January 9, 2018 at 9:18 am

    First off, I LOVE your outfit! Second, I love how you said to make MEASURABLE goals. Its true that it makes them way less intimidating and makes you want to woro harder for them! Great post and great motivation!

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    • Cat says:
      January 9, 2018 at 1:32 pm

      Thank you so much, Morgan! It’s really hard to work towards a goal when you don’t know what success looks like, so defining measurable goals is a must!

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  • Karin Rambo says:
    January 10, 2018 at 1:57 pm

    I had a goal to be more vulnerable in my writing in 2017 and boy was it hard! I’ve definitely grown in that area and been blessed by seeing people respond to it, but it’s a continual deep gulp breath every time I hit publish. I’m an intensely private person when you meet me in real life so that was a really hard step for me, but it’s also been something that has brought a lot of healing to, not only me, but friends and family . I’m proud of you for making a similar goal! I encourage you to stick with it even if it seems hard!

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    • Cat says:
      January 10, 2018 at 2:05 pm

      Thanks so much for your encouragement! I know it’s going to be really tough but ultimately rewarding, because most things worth doing are a little bit scary… Excited to see what you’ll do in 2018, too!

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  • Roger says:
    January 28, 2018 at 11:09 pm

    I agree with you. I will also include being eco-friendly to my resolutions. Your tips are amazing. I will try it out!

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    • Cat says:
      January 29, 2018 at 6:36 am

      That’s great! I’m hoping to share my experience with being more eco-friendly later on this year.

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